"Because my dad didn't love me, I have issues with commitment."
"Because I grew up in a dysfunctional family, I don't communicate well. "
"Because of my genetic make-up, I cannot control my temper."
"Because my mother abandoned me, I lack confidence."
"Because I was abused, I abuse others."(more) "Because I was never was hugged, I am a psycho-path."
A world where we allow others to excuse/shape/create who we are to become and what we do gives all the power we ever had away.
Stand up. Acknowledge shortcomings. Strive to overcome weakness and faults.
Be accountable, for crying out loud! Demand others be accountable. It's nobody's fault but my/your own.(less)